Show your teens just how much they matter, not only to you, but also to the world.
Encourage your teen or pre-teen to do community service.
Research shows that doing regular community service can help boost teens’ self-esteem, teach them about social issues, and lead to success in school and beyond. It may even help them avoid problems like drugs, pregnancy, and trouble with the police.1
One of the best ways is to volunteer as a family.
If you are like most people, there simply isn’t enough time in the day. You have so many demands on your time as it is...from what your boss wants you to do...to doing what your children want you to do. With all the things in your busy schedule, you can’t see how you can become a volunteer, even if you really want to help solve community problems. Your teen probably feels the same way.
Well, where there’s a will, there’s a way…volunteer together. Family volunteering can be initiated by young children, by teenagers, by grandparents, by anyone who has an interest in contributing to their community. There’s a role for everyone in family volunteering.
Families that volunteer together will benefit because it:
Is fun!
Is satisfying.
Strengthens families.
Helps others and strengthens communities.
Improves family communication.
Helps create a new generation of dedicated volunteers.
Teaches kids values like kindness, empathy, respect, friendliness and tolerance.
Teaches responsibility.
Teaches useful skills and lets teens explore possible careers.
Is a good way to meet people or make new friends.
Gives everyone in the family a new perspective on life.
Lets teens be a voice for teens, in general.
Changes lives.
Family volunteering makes a difference.
Family volunteering lets people volunteer even though they have other responsibilities – like taking care of children or seniors.
Family volunteering allows teens and their families to take responsibility for their community. Empowered family volunteers can work to identify and solve their own needs and the needs of those around them.
Family volunteering strengthens family bonds and communication. It involves parents as proactive role models.
EASY WAYS TO GET INVOLVED
To start making a difference in your child’s life, your life and your family way of life, GET INVOLVED:
The quickest way to start volunteering as a family is to visit,
www.vcri.org
and click on “Opportunity Search” located on the left
hand side of the page. Look for "Family Friendly Volunteer Opportunities"
and follow the link for "More..." There are over 100 family-friendly
postings from agencies all over the state.
Take part in National Family Volunteer Days, November 20 & 21, 2004.
National Family Volunteer Days show the benefits of families working together.
They provide a great way to try community service. Find out more through the
Volunteer Center of RI
or the Points
of Light Foundation.
Search this site for organizations that are doing something about an issue that is important to you. Or if you know of an agency that you already think highly of, call them and ask if they need volunteers.
Tips for Volunteering
Find something that fits your family’s interests. Talk about it together.
Try to find something where children and teens can help plan the activity.
Be flexible. You may not find the perfect situation right away.
Start small. Find something that fits your schedule. Do not commit yourself to something you really cannot follow through on.
Find out what’s expected of you or your family. Ask if you will get any training first.
Be responsible. Show up on time. Dress appropriately. Be ready to do what is needed.
Make it fun.
Take time afterward to reflect on the activity. Talk about what you did, why you did it, how it felt, and what you learned.
Do not forget to celebrate your efforts. It will make all of you feel like doing it again.
(Information provided herein by the Family Volunteer
Program of the Volunteer Center of RI. The Family Volunteer Program for
2004 has been made possible by a grant provided by the Carlisle Foundation
of Framingham, MA.)
